4 Things that Happen When You Find the Right One
Dating can be so very confusing. How do you know for sure when you find the right one? You meet someone and the chemistry is off the charts. You share five-hour dates. Conversations that never end. A kiss that is off the charts. You have the same goals and values and vision. You think, this is the right One! And then, sooner rather than later, poof, he disappears into smoke and ghosts away. You wonder, how do you know when you find the right one?
In this blog I cover four things that happen when you find the right one. There are no guarantees, but these are markers that this person could be the real deal!
1.When you find the right one: You feel like you’ve met someone who could be a great friend.
You like him as a person. You respect what he is doing with his life. Over time, you discover that you speak the same language. Share some of the same interests, values and goals. You can be real and authentic with him. There is more ease, more playfulness and less anxiety. You just love being together and don’t need to have fancy dates or dinners. The miracle is that you can truly be yourself, be in the moment and have great laughs and loads of fun– even when you are just going for a walk or getting ice cream cones.
2.When you find the right one: He seems crazy about you.
He gets you and values all the wonderful quirks and gifts you have. He is eager to see you and reluctant to leave you. In fact, he maintains regular contact via text and phone. You are not left waiting for a text or call or date that never happens. He gives you compliments about your personality, your appearance, your fun-factor. And how he loves to kiss you.
When you find the right one, he gazes at you lovingly from time to time. You’re less worried about the connection and whether it is real or not, because he is so validating. Because you basically feel chosen already.
3.When you find the right one: There is chemistry and you feel attracted to him.
But the chemistry is not over the top, where you wind up jumping into bed in a heartbeat. And maybe you don’t feel chemistry all the time. However, it does sparkle up in a strong way. Maybe at the first kiss or the first act of making love. And there is more and more chemistry over time. Rather than a super hot flame-out vibe, there is more of a sincere, loving sexy vibe.